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比起打骂,孩子最害怕的事情竟然有这几件!家长必读

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<div onmouseup="NewHighlight(event);"> <table> <tbody> <tr> <td id="artContent" width="656"> <div style="width: 656px; margin: 0; padding: 0; height: 0;"></div> <p><span><br></span></p><p><span>孩子最害怕什么?玩具丢失了?还是好吃的没有了?都不是,</span><strong>孩子最担心最害怕的都与父母有关,你们才是孩子心中最重要的。</strong><span>多看看孩子担心的事,然后以后注意不要再犯,别再伤害了孩子的心。</span></p><p data-indent="1"><br></p><p><br></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89435" data-color="rgb(190, 119, 99)" data-custom="rgb(190, 119, 99)"><section><section data-order="0"><p data-original-title="" title="">1</p></section></section></section></section><p data-indent="1"><br></p><p><strong><span>爸爸妈妈吵架了</span></strong></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>曾有一家儿童心理研究机构对3000余名学龄儿童进行了一次心理状况调查,其中有一条是“你最怕爸爸妈妈的是什么”,回答得最多的是:“我最怕爸爸妈妈生气,怕他们吵架”。</span></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>有一个答卷写得很生动:“我最怕爸爸生气,他生气的样子可凶啦!把妈妈都气哭了,我吓得像一只小老鼠,心里直扑腾,饭也吃不下去……”</span></p><p data-indent="1"><br></p><p><br></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89435" data-color="rgb(190, 119, 99)" data-custom="rgb(190, 119, 99)"><section><section data-order="1"><p data-original-title="" title="">2</p></section></section></section></section><p data-indent="1"><br></p><p><strong><span>爸爸妈妈又发脾气了</span></strong></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>孩子简直像极了蜡笔小新,又在恶作剧了,当你都催了十遍他还是不动窝的时候,劳累了一天的父母往往难以控制自己的情绪,对孩子吼了起来。</span></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>对孩子发脾气,确实会让孩子害怕。在恐惧中,孩子那些让父母心烦的行为暂时看不见了。但他会怎么样呢?有这样几种可能:</span></p><p><span><br></span></p><blockquote><p><span>1、乖乖地听你指挥,你让干什么,就干什么;</span></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>2、他被吓呆了,愣在那儿不动;</span></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>3、大哭起来,不会再干你不希望他干的事,也不去干你想让他干的事;</span></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>4、学着你的样子,也发起火来,把你心爱的花瓶扔到了地上。</span></p></blockquote><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>孩子对人的情绪是十分敏感的。因此,</span><strong>父母发脾气,也一定会影响到孩子的行为和情绪。</strong></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>但是,孩子还弄不清,父母为什么发脾气。也就是说,在很多父母发脾气的时候,孩子虽然停止了父母所不期望的行为,但他们并不知道自己到底做错了什么。</span></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>在生活中,最好不要向孩子发脾气,但如果真的一不小心向孩子发了火,发完脾气后,最好向孩子解释清楚,孩子的问题到底是什么,该怎么做,同时还要通过行动让孩子感受到你的关心和爱护。</span></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>可能的话,发脾气前最好提出预警,如:“我都快忍不住要发火了,你能赶快……”,“今天我心情不好,你最好别……”。但是决不能因为发脾气后的内疚,就放松对孩子的要求,该坚持的必须坚持。</span></p><p data-indent="1"><br></p><p><br></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89435" data-color="rgb(190, 119, 99)" data-custom="rgb(190, 119, 99)"><section><section data-order="2"><p data-original-title="" title="">3</p></section></section></section></section><p data-indent="1"><br></p><p><strong><span>偏心,对孩子不能给予同样的爱</span></strong></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>前几年热播的电影《唐山大地震》的剧情大家应该都还记忆犹新,在唐山大地震中,一对儿女被压在了同一块水泥板下,面对只能救一个的艰难抉择母亲忍痛选择了儿子方达,很幸运女儿方灯后来也在这次灾难中活了下来,被一对解放军夫妇收为养女。</span></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>但女儿却因为怨恨母亲偏心,怨恨说出的那句“救弟弟”,在外面经历了很多事,吃了很多苦头都不愿回家认亲,和家人足足分离了三十二年。</span></p><p><strong><span><br></span></strong></p><p><strong><span>父母偏心,让某些孩子从小就成长在父母的余光里</span></strong><span>,同是一对父母的孩子,零用钱、衣服、出游……<strong>待遇却不一样,这会给孩子的成长带来阴影。</strong></span></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>大量研究发现,父母偏心会对孩子们的心理健康造成不良影响,引发儿童、青少年乃至成年期出现行为问题,即使他们长大后离家生活多年,建立了自己的家庭,影响依然存在。</span></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>而且,无论是受到偏爱的孩子,还是被冷落的孩子,还是旁观的孩子,只要觉察到妈妈的偏心,都会受到损害。被冷落的孩子会对妈妈或者受宠的孩子怨恨,受宠的孩子则招致兄弟姐妹的憎恶。</span></p><p data-indent="1"><br></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89435" data-color="rgb(190, 119, 99)" data-custom="rgb(190, 119, 99)"><section><section data-order="3"><p data-original-title="" title="">4</p></section></section></section></section><p data-indent="1"><br></p><p><strong><span>父母失信、撒谎</span></strong></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>家长说话不算数,多是因为学习而起,一些父母围绕学习口头承诺某些条件,但当孩子完成了父母的要求,父母却在兑现时推三阻四。</span></p><p><span><br></span></p><blockquote><p><span>比如有的父母说:赶紧写作业,写完作业看电视,可是孩子写完作业,家长又会留一些学习任务,让孩子继续学习;有的家长答应孩子只要考试成绩达到前几名,就有什么奖励,孩子真的考好了,却得不到应有的奖励。</span></p></blockquote><p><strong><span><br></span></strong></p><p><strong><span>孩子最讨厌父母轻易承诺又不能兑现,言而无信,“捉弄”自己。</span></strong></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>失信同时失威信,家长说话不算数,不仅失去了自己在孩子心目中的威信,同样不利于孩子的成长,甚至还影响孩子的自身形象。</span></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>让未形成守信观念的孩子觉得,一个人说话可以不负责任,答应别人的事情也可以不办,这样,孩子就很容易养成“轻率”“无信用”的坏习惯,成人后,这种'失信'的习惯会让自己损失很多朋友和机会。</span></p><p><span><br></span></p><p><span>做个说话算数的家长就要不轻易许诺,不随便许愿;不要为了达到自己眼前的目的,而随便地答应孩子的要求;当孩子提出要求时,要认真想一想,这种要求是否合理、能否兑现,如果是合理的、可兑现的,就要认真地承诺、必须兑现。</span></p><p data-indent="1"><br></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89435" data-color="rgb(190, 119, 99)" data-custom="rgb(190, 119, 99)"><section><section data-order="4"><p data-original-title="" title="">5</p></section></section></section></section><p data-indent="1"><br></p><p><span><span>不欢迎孩子的朋友</span></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;">孩子长大了,也希望拥有几个真心的朋友,和自己分享自己的喜怒哀乐,相信妈妈们应该也都希望自己孩子的人际关系好。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;">但是有些父母可能会因为孩子的小伙伴不太懂礼貌,或太精于算计,或会欺负人,爱撒谎等缺点而不喜欢。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;">然而对孩子来说,随着身心的逐渐发展,希望家长以“大人”身份对待他们,尊重孩子在选择朋友时所拥有的独自意见。如果父母们老是管教与间断或不间断表达对孩子的好朋友不喜欢,势必会引起孩子们的反感,从而使双方的隔阂逐渐增大。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-family: 微软雅黑; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-family: 微软雅黑; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px;">父母应当尊重孩子对好朋友的选择。</span><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-family: 微软雅黑; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px;">父母要站在孩子的角度去看待孩子的好朋友,善于进行角色换位思考,尊重维护孩子的选择。</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;">父母要承认与孩子之间选择朋友时的差异,并尊重这种差异。有时候给孩子足够的面子,孩子也将会给父母足够的面子。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;">孩子能与他人建立好朋友是人际关系中一种最基本的关系,要尊重孩子根据双方意愿和喜好进行自由选择。</span></p><p data-indent="1" style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); line-height: 25.6px; widows: 1; 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padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em;">6</p></section></section></section></section><p data-indent="1" style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-weight: bold; color: rgb(63, 63, 63);">忽视孩子的优点</span></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;">在现实生活中,父母经常会把自己孩子的短处和别人孩子的长处相比,甚至把别人的孩子过度地美化和夸张,本想给自己的孩子树立榜样,其实却给孩子带来巨大的伤害,甚至会因此影响孩子的一生。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;">每一个孩子都有他的长处和优点,虽然孩子的天资有别,学习事物有快有慢,学习成绩也有高有低,但判断一个孩子的好坏,不能只取决于一个方面。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;">作为家长,不能只凭长相、成绩等某个方面就认定自己的孩子不如别人、没有出息,而是应该善于发现他们的优点,发现他们与众不同的地方,要始终相信自己的孩子是优秀的,要把赞美留给自己的孩子,让他们在你的赞美声中继续发扬自己的优点和长处。</span></p><p data-indent="1" style="margin: 0px 1em; 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max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63);">在客人面前指责孩子</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;">人来客往,亲朋好友相聚,谈论各自的孩子,常常成为重要话题之一。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;">很多父母喜欢在众人面前揭自己孩子的短,似乎是在向别人诉苦,说自己教育这样一个孩子多不容易。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;">但孰不知,自己只顾着吹毛求疵地指责他的短处,这无形中,让孩子觉得自己什么都不行,没人赏识他,例如学习不行,长相不行,交际不行,干家务不行,让家人为他受累,也觉得父母对自己不满意,和父母逐步疏远。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;"><br style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; font-family: 微软雅黑;">从以上七件孩子害怕父母做的事中不难看出,孩子心目中的好父母、好家庭,应该有友爱、轻松、宽容、民主和活泼的气氛。相反,他们最头痛的是气氛冷淡、紧张、沉闷、专横、毫无生气的家庭。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 1em; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); font-family: &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, Helvetica, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 15px; 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